can not find jvm.dll

I am trying to use a jdbc/mysql connector. The issue is that the connector is compiled in a later version that what is installed in Coldfusion MX 6.1. I have downloaded and installed the Java 6 SE JDK and installed it. Here is my JVM config file.

#

# VM configuration

#

# Where to find JVM, if {java.home}/jre exists then that JVM is used

# if not then it must be the path to the JRE itself

#java.home=C:/Program Files (x86)/Java/jdk1.6.0_45/jre

#java.home=C:\\Program Files (x86)\\Java\\jdk1.6.0_45\\jre

#java.home=C:/Program Files (x86)/Java/jdk1.6.0_45

#java.home=C:\\Program Files (x86)\\Java\\jdk1.6.0_45

java.home=C:/CFusionMX/runtime/jre

#

# If no java.home is specified a VM is located by looking in these places in this

# order:

#

#  1) bin directory for java.dll (windows) or lib/<ARCH>/libjava.so (unix)

#  2) ../jre

#  3) registry (windows only)

#  4) JAVA_HOME env var plus jre (ie $JAVA_HOME/jre)

#

# Arguments to VM

java.args=-server -DJINTEGRA_NATIVE_MODE -DJINTEGRA_PREFETCH_ENUMS -Xmx512m -Dsun.io.useCanonCaches=false -Xbootclasspath/a:"{application.home}/../lib/webchartsJava2D.jar" -XX:MaxPermSize=128m -XX:+UseParallelGC

#

# commas will be converted to platform specific separator and the result will be passed

# as -Djava.ext.dirs= to the VM

java.ext.dirs={jre.home}/lib/ext

#

# where to find shared libraries

java.library.path={application.home}/../lib,{application.home}/../jint egra/bin,{application.home}/../jintegra/bin/international,{applicatio n .home}/../lib/_nti40/bin

system.path.first=false

# JVM classpath

java.class.path={application.home}/servers/lib,{application.home}/../l ib/cfusion.jar,{application.home}/../lib,{application.home}/../runtim e /lib/jrun.jar,{application.home}/../runtime/lib,

I have tried each of the 4 paths and only the last one works. The following is my Coldfusion error log.

Error loading: C:/Program Files (x86)/Java/jdk1.6.0_45/jre\bin\server\jvm.dll

Error loading: C:\Program Files (x86)\Java\jdk1.6.0_45\jre\bin\server\jvm.dll

Error loading: C:/Program Files (x86)/Java/jdk1.6.0_45\jre\bin\server\jvm.dll

Error loading: C:\Program Files (x86)\Java\jdk1.6.0_45\jre\bin\server\jvm.dll

I have no idea why the jvm.dll can not be found as the file is in that directory.

(sorry for the cross post. This is probably the better place)